Comments on: Picking the Right Time to Discharge from an RTC

By: Pine River Institute

Pine River Institute — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 22:11:36 +0000

It’s clear that you have thought this through thoroughly and gone above and beyond to help your son. 2.5 years is a long time! I can certainly understand your son’s desire to be ‘in the real world’ and your desire to have him home too. I hope this next part of the journey brings you all some joy and relief! Thanks so much for sharing your experiences – it’s a real service to all of us.

By: admin

admin — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:22:41 +0000

Interestingly he has told us he will not run from home, that he was running from the RTC and he does not have a problem with us. Amazing how the past fades with time, because he did have problems with us before he left, but I guess now we don’t look so bad.

By: suzanne

suzanne — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:08:20 +0000

I hope & pray for the best – for you, your son and your family. I know the decision process is a painful one. Sounds like it is a gamble – with his history of running. I hope your son is more mature to make good, thoughtful decisions for himself & his future. And that you have resources to continue with outside help. All the best….

By: TooManyHats

TooManyHats — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:05:16 +0000

I am sure there are lots of emotions surrounding his return. Yes, your relationship is forever and that is a great way to look at it. I am hoping the transition will go well and he will continue to grow and mature under your guidance.