Comments on: What’s Up In The Troubled Teen House

By: kidsRTC

kidsRTC — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 16:19:38 +0000

Hi Beth, As you are aware this is a roller coaster ride. I try not to get in the car but the inertia seems to pull me. Baby steps is correct, so much good and so much still to be learned. Some kids get it and others just keep banging their heads against the wall. I think you are well aware of what I mean. Keep your head up we are all traveling this road together. )

By: Beth

Beth — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 03:33:18 +0000

Hey there – I haven’t checked your blog for a few days and was glad to find a new post. I am always wondering how things are going at your house. Sounds like you are able to stay on top of things and disinvest yourself somewhat from the outcome at the same time. Bad new about the job and the girlfriend and the drugs, but it sounds like at least that he accepted his consequences without freaking out or running off. That is progress, which as you know we parents have to measure in baby steps for our great big kids. I like that list your therapist gave you, and I am going to steal it for myself and try to follow it. As for losing control and power–when you think about it, we really haven’t had much of that since they got too big to sit on. Glad to hear your younger son seems to be doing better. Take care of yourself my friend–can’t say I blame you for going to bed early! Be glad you can fall asleep!

By: kidsRTC

kidsRTC — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 22:50:00 +0000

Hi Angie, I think of you often. Sounds like you won’t have to worry about New Year’s. I can’t start worrying about that one now. Keep up the good work.

By: Angie Laub

Angie Laub — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 19:18:43 +0000

Just like so many of your other posts this hits so close to home. I absolutely loved how said you can always tell when they are not using, because they once again become human, more involved and engaged with the family. They tend to become very distant when drugs are in the picture and irritable. That is so true, I am living this right along with you! My daughter just asked if she could have a New Years party here at our houwse…wow! The answer was an enthuastic YES… she will be home and supervised. What a difference a year can make. Thanks for your insights, they are priceless.

By: Karyn

Karyn — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 17:41:09 +0000

Those are some good suggestions. I’m going to keep that list for my own son interactions! Thanks for continuing to post and be so transparent. Your sons are fortunate to have you for their mom!